The Gift of a Thousand Tantrums
Photo (C) Jason M 2010 This morning Brook, my mostly mild-mannered four-year-old, had a huge tantrum. We were just about to get in the car and join our friends on a hike. It all seemed to be going as...
View ArticleWe Cancel Christmas Presents
I’m a single mother. I have very little money — sometimes it’s a struggle just to pay the rent. Last year, my parents were going to be celebrating their 50th wedding anniversary in New York, and our...
View ArticleThumb-sucking and Holding Feelings Inside
We have raised my 6-year old daughter with Parenting by Connection ideas. One of my daughter’s friends sucks his thumb often. Suddenly, she began experimenting with sucking her thumb—she had never used...
View ArticleMore Free Teleseminars from Hand in Hand
Free Teleseminar: Meltdowns and Shutdowns Led by Kirsten Nottleson and Patty Wipfler Thursday, March 24, 2011, 6 – 7 pm PST Children’s emotional outbursts cause some of the most difficult moments in...
View ArticleListening through a Homework Challenge
My daughter was given a month to learn all the states and their capitals. She’s in fifth grade. About two weeks before the due date, she had learned some states, but not many, and I made the suggestion...
View ArticleTransitioning from TV
(C) Wynand Delport 2008 I believe the studies that suggest that TV isn’t really helpful for children because such passivity occurs for the viewer. Yet, I’d let the viewing get out of hand during a...
View ArticleSpecial Time and Spelling
(C) Cecile Graat 2009 Halfway through the first grade, my 7-year-old did not want to write or spell at home or school anymore. This was new for him. It seemed to me like the expectations for the first...
View ArticleStaylistening and Playground Politics
Antics on the playground can lead to solid cries at home One afternoon when I was picking up my 1st grader from school, his friends told me he had a bad day. According to them, he was tripped many...
View ArticleStarting Kindergarten
(C) Cienpies Design 2009 My five-year-old started kindergarten last week and he is almost finished with his second week. It wasn’t an easy transition for him and here is how we supported him using...
View ArticleListening to Tears Before School
One morning while clipping my daughter’s nails I made the comment, “Oh, I think I clipped that one too short.” It wasn’t a big deal at first since it didn’t hurt. (If I hadn’t of said anything my...
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